helped me to better understand the mechanics of a relationship, and the things that were obvious but often overlooked by couples.
most importantly, point out to me the differences between men and women, and how to effectively accept them.
at the same time, reminding me of how i fell in love with porky - because of who is he. because of the fact that he is different from who i am.
first few chapters into the book and i've horrendously realized all the things i have been doing and how hurtful they could be.
when a woman loves a man, she slowly, without realizing, tend to want to change the man to become who she is...hoping that this could make her loved one understand things from her point of view.
it definitely doesnt make the woman any less unloving by wanting to change her man.
it's almost natural for a woman to wanna do that.
but what the woman needs to understand (and recall), is the reason why she fell in love with the man in the first place.
porky also learnt a bit of how women think and behave with the occasional 'nah! read this passage!' kind of statements from me. bahahhah
ah well. porky called. gtg! =D
